Morrisss

People are most easily hurt when they trust the most.

Whoever wants to control you needs you. Whoever wants to manipulate you can't do without you. Whoever you desire will enslave you. Whoever you pity, you will bear their fate. Whoever you think of, you will take on their karma. Don't be an unconscious recipient; only be a friend within the facts, and don't punish yourself with others' logic and mistakes.

From the perspective of the Dao, the relationship between people ends the moment they meet. Because before meeting, I have already waited for you for thousands of years.

In any relationship, you can give, but you should not feel like you're giving. You can be altruistic, but you shouldn't think you're being altruistic. You can be impressive, but you shouldn't emphasize how impressive you are. The highest state of knowledge is to realize that you don't know. Truly skilled people don't realize how talented they are. This is the Zen principle of "emptiness."

Those who look outward are just dreaming; those who look inward are truly awake. Only when your unconscious becomes conscious will it guide your life. Things that go unnoticed will become your destiny. No awakening is without pain.

When you find someone who is highly skilled but not very successful, that person must have an extremely high moral standard.

How significant is the influence of the family of origin?
Those who have experienced hunger spend their lives pursuing material possessions.
Those who have been neglected spend their lives wanting to be seen.
Those who have not been loved spend their lives trying to please others.
Those who have been controlled spend their lives escaping the past.
Those who have been suppressed spend their lives seeking affirmation.
Those who have been ignored spend their lives seeking security.
Those who have been scolded spend their lives trying to build confidence.
Those without backing spen

Don't underestimate some jokes; many are hidden malice. They are testing your bottom line step by step, disguising malicious attacks with humor. When you're unsure, don't easily respond, and consider recording the conversation. Keep evidence, take it seriously, and stay alert.

After being bullied, if a person does not attack anyone and keeps their grievances bottled up inside, they become a depression patient.
After being bullied, if a person turns around and bullies someone weaker, they become NPD.
After being bullied, if a person fights back against those who bullied them, then they are relatively normal.
After being bullied, if a person does not attack anyone and remains calm inside, then they must be a strong person.

A person's thinking boundaries are determined by their vision; their cognitive boundaries are determined by experience; and their relationship boundaries are determined by struggle.

People who control others actually do so to fill their inner sense of security and emptiness by dominating the external world. This is not rooted in strength, but rather in deep vulnerability and fear.

The weak study emotions; the strong study interests.
The weak study struggle; the strong study distribution.
The weak study accumulation; the strong study compound interest.
The weak study existing assets; the strong study incremental gains.
The weak study matters; the strong study emotions.
The weak study products; the strong study needs.
The weak study right and wrong; the strong study goals.
The weak study excuses; the strong study breaking through.
The weak study self-interest; the strong study altruism.
The weak study showing off; the strong study pretending to be naive.

As long as a person still has a heart that relies on others, they will subconsciously flatter, please, and compromise. This is the reason for low status. So what if no one relies on you? Pray to God. When mortals can't go on, they always pray to God. But who will save the gods? There is nothing that can save the gods; gods are self-salvaging. Gods do not have higher-level idols to pray to, nor do they have illusions of dependence. So what is a god? Respect for the laws is a god; relying on oneself is a god. The first thing every theology learns should be to no longer rely on others, no longer

Night and day are the same to a blind person; truth and falsehood are indistinguishable to an ignorant person.

8 manifestations of blurred boundaries: rescue, interference, dependence, hypersensitivity, over-accommodation, invasion of privacy, control, and separation anxiety.

The New Year is a large-scale social practice of mutual self-promotion, where people gauge each other or flatter one another. Occasionally, there is mutual help. Everyone gathers together to talk about you, talk about me, and chat about others.

When a liar knows you no longer believe them and continues to lie, this is no longer deception; it is an insult.

Things you should not share with children: your financial difficulties, details of your marital conflicts, your personal regrets, negative comments about family members, adult secrets, criticisms of the other party's parents, your insecurities, trauma details, unfiltered emotional outbursts, and rumors.

Love is the difficult realization that there are other real entities besides yourself. The starting point of love is not finding yourself, but meeting the person who is "not you."