# People don't die because they get old, but because death can come at any time.

So you should use your limited energy on unlimited experiences.

Traveling is an experience, and staying home is also an experience.
Getting married is an experience, and getting divorced is also an experience.
Being together is an experience, and breaking up is also an experience.
Going to karaoke is an experience, and hiring a companion is also an experience.

The key is the feeling of the process—to experience the process, to be fully invested, without distraction.

A traitor in Internal Affairs once said something about how to tell who's a cop. He said if you discover someone doing something without focus, while also watching you, then they're a cop.

Don't be an observer. Without focus, how can you have a good experience.