A more genuine awakening is the despair over all relationships. When one has witnessed the darkness of human nature, encountered the collapse of trust, and experienced the bitterness of isolation, one will understand that the essence of life is that a person lives alone; whether blood relatives or soulmates, no one can truly empathize with you. If you always project hope onto others, you are destined to experience the gap between ideals and reality. I always rely on others, and when separation comes, the entire spiritual world collapses. In this world, it is normal for people to come and go, and it is inevitable that things change and people are no longer the same. Any relationship can unexpectedly lead to a rupture, and anyone may decisively leave one day. When disappointment accumulates enough, one can awaken; when the heart is thoroughly chilled, one can learn to be wise. In this lifetime, one will encounter tens of thousands of people, but not a single person can bear your infinite expectations. Do not overestimate emotions, do not underestimate human nature; instead of searching for a roof to shelter you from the rain, it is better to become your own support. From now on, let joy and sorrow be in your own hands, let warmth and cold be known to yourself, and let grief be your own burden.