Kindness has its limits, and giving has its degree.
When a person does not respect you, put away your generosity. The best way to handle it is not through communication, nor through exchange, and certainly not through anger and sadness, but rather by ignoring and distancing yourself. Mr. Yang Jiang said: "You have the upbringing that doesn't hurt others, but you lack a presence that prevents you from being harmed. If no one is there to protect you completely, then please carry a bit of sharpness in your kindness from now on, to safeguard yourself." As we walk in this world, we must carry a kind heart, but at the same time, we must also protect ourselves. When facing people who do not respect you, you cannot be overly magnanimous without any bottom line, and you must not be deceived by the other party's words. The so-called "Buddha has compassionate brows and also fierce eyes." May your kindness be measured, your giving be moderate, possessing both a compassionate heart and the courage to "roar like a lion." In this way, while helping others, we will be respected, and our efforts will not be in vain. #PI $Pi
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Kindness has its limits, and giving has its degree.
When a person does not respect you, put away your generosity. The best way to handle it is not through communication, nor through exchange, and certainly not through anger and sadness, but rather by ignoring and distancing yourself.
Mr. Yang Jiang said:
"You have the upbringing that doesn't hurt others, but you lack a presence that prevents you from being harmed. If no one is there to protect you completely, then please carry a bit of sharpness in your kindness from now on, to safeguard yourself."
As we walk in this world, we must carry a kind heart, but at the same time, we must also protect ourselves.
When facing people who do not respect you, you cannot be overly magnanimous without any bottom line, and you must not be deceived by the other party's words.
The so-called "Buddha has compassionate brows and also fierce eyes."
May your kindness be measured, your giving be moderate, possessing both a compassionate heart and the courage to "roar like a lion."
In this way, while helping others, we will be respected, and our efforts will not be in vain. #PI $Pi