Getting out from the bottom, knowing these 5 points is enough
1. Don't become a lawyer, doctor, or judge
Any profession with strong binary opposites is prone to karma, avoid it
2. Be sure to read more books, because reading is borrowing life
An author extracts the most important time, experiences, and wisdom from their life and turns it into a book, "depositing" it into this bank. As readers, we can "borrow" or "withdraw" these precious life assets from this bank through reading, to enrich, extend, and elevate our own lives
3. When partnering with others, pretend to admit fault first
If you consider yourself to have a 55% share, proactively suggest a 37% share
If the other party objects and proposes 55%, then consider cooperating;
The same applies to colleagues, superiors, and subordinates,
If it’s not your responsibility, just briefly mention it,
Go with the flow and happily give what’s yours, let it go
Not in your position, don’t plan for their affairs
4. Learn to be alone
Being alone doesn’t mean being in a lonely environment, but rather making your inner self completely calm
Why are some people afraid of being alone?
Because when people are alone, they always hear their inner voice, and this voice from deep within will keep asking you, how do you want to live your life?
Once you truly learn to seek inward,
You will find that only a peaceful life is worth pursuing in this world—others and hell,
Focusing only on your inner self is the way to true peace
5. Don’t trust others too easily
This is the tragedy I’ve seen in all the bottom layers
Trust parents, trust pyramid schemes, trust micro-businesses, trust relatives, trust brothers, trust all kinds of big promises
The reason I can rise from the bottom to where I am today,
Is because I trust no one
I am prepared for others to break their promises
The money I lend out, even if they swear they will pay back, I am ready to lose it all
Every iPhone I buy, I get Apple Care, prepared for it to break at any time
When I ride in a car, no matter how close, I buckle my seatbelt, ready for an accident at any moment
All my passwords are on my computer, unencrypted, ready for a plane crash at any time
When I received an offer from Company A, I was prepared for them to back out at any moment, so I kept preparing for interviews with Company B
To be honest, I don’t even trust myself; I say I will do something every day, but often I can’t even finish
The only person you can truly rely on is yourself
6. Hide your words, find every way to conceal your true information
If you have strength, stay low-key as much as possible
If you are alone and weak, use ambiguous and bluffing tactics
Void is real, real is void
Vague and real, true and false are hard to distinguish
Only then can you increase your chances of surviving in the adult world
There are two sets of social rules,
One for the workers, one for the smart people
Understanding the rules saves you 10 years of struggle
Being naive and foolish, you’ll struggle for 100 years